Two Kinds Mother and daughter Paraghraph

In the story "Two Kinds" there is a conflict between Jing-mei and her mother.If I had to choose a side I would choose both. I say both because the mother wants her to be the best that she can be and to me thats very respect respectiable. The daughter feels like her mom is really pushing her to do something she feels she can't do which is also respectiable because she is in America and she has the freedom of speech.They both were right and wrong from a certain point of view.So this my conclusion, and I say I agree with both.